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THIS THING CALLED LOVE... It is a natural thing for humans to desire love; as they say, 'love makes the world go round'. Though this assertion may be questionable, those who live their lives emotionally attached to their loved ones in mutual relationships claim it is true. We as a people are meant to interact with one another because there is always some form of connection that naturally draws us together.  Special relationships are between individuals of opposite gender while another form is the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected in a way or the other through love. Humans are not created to live their lives alone; there is a pressing need in humans to interact with one another, to express and/or have their emotional needs fulfilled such as joy, care, sorrow, affection, pain, sacrifice and so on.   Partners can do many things to inspire or grow love between themselves and avoid the many prevailing problems that ...
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  CLOSENESS AND DISTANCE IN RELATIONSHIPS   You can be a thousand miles separated emotionally while in the same bed and on the other hand,  be as close as the next heartbeat even if you are physically separated by several miles from each other .  Have you ever had the experience of feeling a loss of connection between you and your partner even though you were within a touching distance?   On the other hand, have you ever felt so close to someone you don’t see frequently or that you don't really know that much?    Can you explain the paradox? I have experienced both more than once and I am trying to understand and unravel the root cause of this distance and closeness paradox. Yet, I don't have a definitive answer, but I feel I am getting closer to the core of the issue faster than I imagined.   Closeness or distance could come in different forms: emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, sexual, and psychological. I have felt very close emotionall...