Special One

THIS THING CALLED LOVE...

It is a natural thing for humans to desire love; as they say, 'love makes the world go round'. Though this assertion may be questionable, those who live their lives emotionally attached to their loved ones in mutual relationships claim it is true.

We as a people are meant to interact with one another because there is always some form of connection that naturally draws us together.  Special relationships are between individuals of opposite gender while another form is the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected in a way or the other through love. Humans are not created to live their lives alone; there is a pressing need in humans to interact with one another, to express and/or have their emotional needs fulfilled such as joy, care, sorrow, affection, pain, sacrifice and so on.

 Partners can do many things to inspire or grow love between themselves and avoid the many prevailing problems that adversely affect relationships like Infidelity, financial difficulties, drug addiction, arrogance and abuses. Often times, the solution is very simple and achievable. You only need to intentionally create room for love to grow in you and enable same in your spouse or loved ones by applying these strategies: (discover more through the following link):  amzn.to/2FQcgBY

Every person in a relationship has to make it a duty to live up to the responsibility of making things work out fine and according to the needs and expectation of those involved which will either keep the parties together or apart. Each of the individuals involved has a role to play to show care and affection for the other person instead of putting up a selfish and arrogant attitude. Wives can decide to prepare their husbands’ favorite delicacies as a way of drawing their attention.  As they say; the way into a man’s heart is through his stomach. Husbands as well can buy surprise gifts for their wives to appreciate them and show some love. Women are emotional creatures and will always love any kind gesture from their spouses. Even a nice smelling perfume and few accessories can ignite a little more romance in the relationship and solidify it more.

In our world today, people hardly keep to marriage vows. Not that it is impossible, but lack of commitment by both or either of the parties involved makes it difficult to keep to it. It is the responsibilities of both parties involved to adhere to the dictates of the vows and encourage one another through thick and thin as Love is about putting the interest of the other partner first and not self.

Partners must accept each other as they are and focus on their area of strength in order to bring out the best in them. Honesty is what partners need to exhibit in order to build trust which is the backbone of lasting relationship. When you are honest with your partner, you will eschew pretence and be yourself. You will win the unwavering trust of your partner and he/she will naturally love you for who you are rather than who you pretend to be.